Hello Beautiful!

You’re here! Hurray!

We talk bodies + souls here.

We talk passion + faith here.

Nicole Romero

We are made for love and by love.

This place, Love + Making It, exists to help you feel brave and beautiful {in bed} and out.

All that creativity, courage, and love you fill the world with each day can also be brought into the most intimate areas of your life for you to enjoy.

Plus, sex is a powerful force. It has a disproportionate effect on life. A little good work put into your sex-life will have major rewards in every other area: spiritual, emotional, mental, professional.

Whether you are choosing in or out of sex at this time, there is a place for you here. You’ll find essays, resources, and inspiration to help you enjoy a fun, fulfilling, deeply satisfying love-life. Check out the blog topics for the areas that most fit you.

With Love,    Nicolette

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Everyone deserves beauty + bravery + freedom in bed and out

An intro to Love & Making It

  • You are undeniably beautiful.
  • Great love unifies your body, soul, and mind.
  • Curiosity and gratitude will lead to your deepest desires.
  • You can be free of expectations and learn to play.
  • You can change the world through love and making it.


You are in the right place. 

Deep inside you know that the world needs your courage and creativity: in your family, in your business, in your church, in your school…but what about in your most intimate moments?

You were created for love and making it. For love. By love. The origin of our lives is not some dirty secret. Your body is good. We cannot let sex and faith remain separate. They were never meant to be separate. We can be the generation that reclaims sex for Good – for ourselves, for our marriages, and for the world.

Make space in your heart {and in your body} for possibility. In you there is the holy and the playful. In you there is the spiritual and the sensual. In you there is perfection and progress.

The blog topics are divided up for your comfort.

Choosing In

For people choosing to have sex.

Focused on US.

Choosing Out

For anyone choosing out of having sex.

Focused on YOU.


All of the above.

Focused on YOU and US.

What if instead of saying,

“Honey, I have a headache.
Can we please go to sleep?”

You said,

“Honey, I have a headache.

Can we please make love?”


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